Time can heal many things in life. Sometimes that time can span many years or decades, and you can live a half life waiting to feel better. Someday.
Life is for living after all and if any form of loss is keeping you from doing that, it's time for you to dissolve your grief.
The loss of a close family member
The loss of a boyfriend or girlfriend
Loss of a relationship
Loss of money
Loss of business
Loss of a house or job or something that you still miss
Loss of baby through miscarriage, abortion
Loss of your life through an untimely diagnosis, or progression of an Illness or a challenging prognosis.
Loss of a body part or function
Loss of lifestyle
Loss of a sense
Ultimately our grief and loss coaching and consulting is all about dissolving any emotional stress and burden around the event the grief has caused. The constant questioning and associated guilt whether we could have done more or less or something different to change the outcome can keep us stuck. We all carry around baggage or bags of age that weighs us down.
I haven’t heard of the term a grief life coach before. Maybe that’s a new term., but we both know the people that you loved most in the world and then lost, would not want you suffering any longer that you needed to. They would want you to get on and live your life fully, intentionally and with a presence of mind to appreciate your blessings and surroundings.
Some of my clients have buried away resentment and grief for years for many reasons, some because that’s how it was and they just had to get on with it. Some have felt so off kilter that they have been merely existing and forgotten how to live fully. If this is you, it’s time to dissolve your burden and your grief.
It’s time for you to re-enter and revitalize your life. Less dissolve your pain so you can truly feel the presence of your loved one and stop missing them.
There is a new way of dealing with grief. It's not about you following the rules and doing what you should do or what society says you should do. It’s about approaching your grief and loss with a new methodology that is so effective it will have you appreciating your loved one and your life in a whole new way.
Let’s honour your loved one's journey. It is a transformational journey that you can now appreciate.